Comments on: Lost. http://cherylho.net/2008/03/29/lost/ Mon, 25 Jan 2010 21:51:04 +0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: CincauHangus http://cherylho.net/2008/03/29/lost/comment-page-1/#comment-83 CincauHangus Sun, 06 Apr 2008 02:11:57 +0000 http://cherylho.net/2008/03/29/lost/#comment-83 *pats head* since we're in the same family, i can pretty much say we are in the same boat.. while the situation and circumstances may be different, im also trying to impress the same person. maybe it's in their genes eh? because u're a girl, this may not apply to you, but my dad is pretty one sided towards the girls. feels like another entity in the house, where it still can function without me.. but somewhere in between, i do realize that my dad actually cares but doesnt show any of it. maybe he dont wanna show that because it could be a sign of weakness. ego. end of the day, do the best you can, and they'll be proud of you no matter what (though they won't show it la..) *pats head* since we’re in the same family, i can pretty much say we are in the same boat.. while the situation and circumstances may be different, im also trying to impress the same person. maybe it’s in their genes eh?

because u’re a girl, this may not apply to you, but my dad is pretty one sided towards the girls. feels like another entity in the house, where it still can function without me..

but somewhere in between, i do realize that my dad actually cares but doesnt show any of it. maybe he dont wanna show that because it could be a sign of weakness. ego.

end of the day, do the best you can, and they’ll be proud of you no matter what (though they won’t show it la..)

]]> By: Wingz http://cherylho.net/2008/03/29/lost/comment-page-1/#comment-82 Wingz Thu, 03 Apr 2008 15:26:17 +0000 http://cherylho.net/2008/03/29/lost/#comment-82 Dear Cheryl ... human changes everyone does, daddy changed .. so did you .... but dont give up yet ok? Keep talking to them. I would like my kid to keep talking to me, it makes me feel that they actually care :) Dear Cheryl … human changes everyone does, daddy changed .. so did you …. but dont give up yet ok? Keep talking to them. I would like my kid to keep talking to me, it makes me feel that they actually care :)

]]> By: Adelina http://cherylho.net/2008/03/29/lost/comment-page-1/#comment-81 Adelina Wed, 02 Apr 2008 15:47:29 +0000 http://cherylho.net/2008/03/29/lost/#comment-81 Hey, I don't know if you remember me but we used to go to the same Add Math tuition last year! Just wanted to tell you that you're not alone on this. I feel like a failure most of the time and I definitely could relate to your post. But I guess no matter what happens, you'll still be their daughter and they'll still love you :) Hey, I don’t know if you remember me but we used to go to the same Add Math tuition last year!

Just wanted to tell you that you’re not alone on this. I feel like a failure most of the time and I definitely could relate to your post.

But I guess no matter what happens, you’ll still be their daughter and they’ll still love you :)

]]> By: *hick* http://cherylho.net/2008/03/29/lost/comment-page-1/#comment-80 *hick* Sat, 29 Mar 2008 10:27:13 +0000 http://cherylho.net/2008/03/29/lost/#comment-80 Its not that your daddy is disappointed at you or anything at all. That's his way of "protecting" you. Imagine seeing your kids all grown up, no need for those piggyback rides that you always give to your kids. The usual checking out and taking care of your kids. How would you feel if you know that your kids are all grown up, and that they don't need you anymore? Sad. You feel not needed anymore. Useless. That's what they're experiencing now. They don't know you don't feel that way. They don't know how you feel. They just assume that you're all grown up and you don't need them anymore. I faced the same thing when I was at your stage. I didn't know. I was frustrated. Until I talked to their best buddy and that is what my parents told them. It's not that they don't love you. They do, and alot too. They are proud of you, even if you're a failure and all. You are still his daughter and it will stay that way forever. It's just that you've grown up and those days are gone. Everyone will go through this same stage (well, almost everyone). The time where all you get is nagging and heartbreak. Put yourself in his shoe. Try to feel what he is feeling, what he is experiencing now. Why he said those words. And think positive. does'nt mean he say hurtful things, it's just to break your heart. It's not that. You're not the only one that missed the time when you guys spent quality time together. He too feels the same way. Next time, when you think that he's breaking your heart when he talk to you, give him a hug. Things will be ok after that. I'm 22 this year and I still get the usual nagging and shit, saying words that hurt me alot. And everytime when that happens, I'd give her a smile. She would ask why am I smiling. I'd say, at least I know you still care. She would smile back. I won't hug her tho. You know la.. men's ego. Must be macho. Haha. Chill ok. He still love you no matter what. Remember that. Its not that your daddy is disappointed at you or anything at all. That’s his way of “protecting” you. Imagine seeing your kids all grown up, no need for those piggyback rides that you always give to your kids. The usual checking out and taking care of your kids. How would you feel if you know that your kids are all grown up, and that they don’t need you anymore? Sad. You feel not needed anymore. Useless. That’s what they’re experiencing now. They don’t know you don’t feel that way. They don’t know how you feel. They just assume that you’re all grown up and you don’t need them anymore. I faced the same thing when I was at your stage. I didn’t know. I was frustrated. Until I talked to their best buddy and that is what my parents told them. It’s not that they don’t love you. They do, and alot too. They are proud of you, even if you’re a failure and all. You are still his daughter and it will stay that way forever. It’s just that you’ve grown up and those days are gone. Everyone will go through this same stage (well, almost everyone). The time where all you get is nagging and heartbreak. Put yourself in his shoe. Try to feel what he is feeling, what he is experiencing now. Why he said those words. And think positive. does’nt mean he say hurtful things, it’s just to break your heart. It’s not that. You’re not the only one that missed the time when you guys spent quality time together. He too feels the same way. Next time, when you think that he’s breaking your heart when he talk to you, give him a hug. Things will be ok after that. I’m 22 this year and I still get the usual nagging and shit, saying words that hurt me alot. And everytime when that happens, I’d give her a smile. She would ask why am I smiling. I’d say, at least I know you still care. She would smile back. I won’t hug her tho. You know la.. men’s ego. Must be macho. Haha. Chill ok. He still love you no matter what. Remember that.

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